Thanksgiving Weekend

Mom decorating the tree.

Ruby chillin w/Grandpa

Mike getting ready to cut down the Christmas tree.

Thanks for finding the perfect tree Katie!!

Thanksgiving Dinner (Grandpa, Me, Katie and brother Larry)

Mimi likes the Christmas Village too.

She found a spot w/o knocking down anything! Amazing cat-

It was so nice to be with family during the Thanksgiving weekend. We stuffed ourselves, cut down the Christmas tree, played football and watched some holiday movies. Mike also took my Dad, brother and Katie to shoot off some rounds. It was a good time! It was Ruby's first Thanksgiving and first time having to share Mom and Dad with several other people. That part was a little difficult for her. We noticed a change in her personality and respect towards Mike and I. We talked about it after everyone left and luckily she was very open about her feelings and what was hard for her while we had company. Another step forward :)

Ruby keeping warm in her new pink scarf!

Gobble Gobble

I sure hope my Turkey turns out this nice!

Our house is really looking forward to Thanksgiving this year. Not only is this Ruby's first Thanksgiving, but my Dad, brother and his girlfriend are leaving their homes today to celebrate with us. Ruby has met Grandpa the first day she came home, but it will be her first time to meet Uncle Larry and Auntie Katie.

Our family connection is finding its niche. We are to the point where we click more often, know each others reaction before it will happen and just feel closer overall. A few nights ago Mike mentioned that it seems like we've been a family for much longer than we really have...I will agree. It feels so good to be at this point after almost 5 months. Considering Ruby is an older child, this is a huge accomplishment. Today Ruby said "I love you bigger than mother earth." My heart just melted!

Last night we played Monopoly for the first time. Ruby caught on fast and LOVES the game. I personally thinks she likes the power of the money :) She always has very good fu (luck) while playing games. Last night was not an exception. Her first time around the board she landed on Boardwalk (bought it of course!) and her second time around the board she landed on Park Place (another important purchase as well!). Mike and I couldn't believe it. Besides card games, her two favorite games are now Rumikube and Monoploy. To the family in IL and Michigan: watch out because Ruby will dominate over the Christmas holidays!

I hope everyone has a Happy Thanksgiving!

Adoption Yahoo Groups

This post is for all the people I've met on the adoption related Yahoo Groups. I have deleted my yahoo account because it was business related and I have changed jobs. Please contact me through my e-mail listed on this blog. I will re-join the groups sometime in future.

Moving Along...

First, I have to comment on the election. Although not everyone shares the same view, I am so happy that Obama was elected. It was very exciting to watch the results as a family and was easy for Ruby to follow. We made it a very big deal - how cool for Ruby to experience such a historical election year her first year in America. I hope it is something she will always remember. Now I'm just kicking myself in the butt (BIG time!!!!) that we didn't attend any of the Obama rallies in Colorado...*I'm sooo stupid!*

Ruby loves second hand stores like her mommy. We came across this steal for $2.50. She has already decided that it is her Christmas dress - she looks so beautiful.

Halloween Photos

Ruby in the school Halloween costume parade on Friday

Our black Halloween cat, Mimi

Ruby and her fav dog, Simba

Family pumpkins (Mike's, Ruby's and Tara's)

Daddy cutting is spooktacular pumpking

The girls digging out the pumpkin brains...

We took Ruby trick or treating on Friday evening. She was a bit shy at first, but

realized how fast she can rack up the candy...then got really into trick or treating.

The dogs joined us, the weather was fabulous (50s) and we will all

be enjoying candy for awhile.

WE look forward to CHANGE tomorrow!

Honor Roll, colorful teeth and that cold white stuff...

Loving the first snow fall...I don't think she

quite understands how much we actually get up here!

Ruby made the honor roll. Pretty amazing kid. We are so

proud of our hard working daughter! Of course the English part of school has

been adapted to her level...but she's catching up fast!

Yes, we know that Ruby should brush her teeth more often, but the colors are starting to grow on us.

Ruby attended her first Halloween party yesterday and had a blast. Afterwards she told me that she really likes Halloween now. She was also amazed by all the candy.

Our daughter is picking up English at a faster pace now. She has used 20 - 25 new words in sentences the past few days. Ruby gets so excited when she uses a new word. When she uses a new word she let's us know that it is a first time word. Very cool and we share her excitement! She is starting to forget a little Chinese already, which makes us all sad, including Ruby. Luckily she is trying to keep up with her Chinese by listening to Chinese music CD's and moive/videos. My mom sent her several animal Chinese videos (a Chinese version of animal planet shows). All these things have helped......the library is also hooking us up with an order of simple reading books in Chinese and English so Ruby can retain some of her 1st grade level in reading and writing the Chinese characters.

Pumpkin Patch Fun & Photos

Ruby riding a mini horse.... she told me later that day it was her first time on a horse, even though she grew up with them.
Ruby and her friend Seth.

Mom and Ruby on a hay ride....

I love that Ruby is in the tween stage because she still has a lot of little girl left in her. It makes days like going to a pumpkin patch so much fun. Right now she believes in Santa...I hope it lasts until after Christmas. How fun to play Santa for her first Christmas! She has some pre-teen behaviors too....like not knowing what to wear to school and if it looks nice, asking me to buy more training bras (boo hoo....puberty is coming) and wanting to wear make-up.

4 months as a family

Ruby and Daddy chill'n with Macea...aka Mimi
The parents.....it's nice to have someone in the house that
can take photos of us!

Daddy with Ruby

Mike and I can't believe we've been a family for four months already. Fall is here and we are already looking forward to Halloween, Thanksgiving, Rubys' BD, Christmas and the New Year!

We reached a couple of milestones this week. Ruby's behavior and emotions have finally become more consistently positive. We only had two small behavior issues this week. This is amazing! Usually she has a couple of good days mixed in with some OK and 3 -4 challenging days. Mike and I have been praising her left and right for doing such a good job at expressing her emotions appropriately. We are so proud of her. This is a huge accomplishment and I we can tell she is trying hard. Ruby even went so far this week to admit that she hasn't been very nice sometimes to us and that she can do better. Another milestone includes Ruby saying sorry to me. She has only said sorry after poor behavior because Mike has asked her to. ...maybe one or two times before. Because it was the first time she said sorry on her own I broke down and cried (of course!). I let her know that it made me happy. She gave me a big smile and kiss on the cheek after I told her how proud I was of her. I hope it happens again :) Since that incident, our relationship seems to have taken a little step further. Our third milestone happened today. She wanted to know about the adoption process and hear our story of why, how and when we adopted. I was quite open and honest. She also shared some more of her story with me. Her younger foster sister entered the orphanage the same time. I hope to find where her sister was adopted...if yet. Ruby knew she was going to be adopted about 60 days before she came home...this is good because I thought they gave her less time. She didn't receive the care package though until the day before she came home....not a lot of time to process the photos we sent.

On another note - Ruby is starting to read basic level 1 and 2 books like "I am Sam". She also starts full school days maybe next week or the next.